Out of the comfort zone - guaranteed to work with the 4-zone model

Unfortunately, most children are bombarded with the same messages over and over again by a wide variety of caregivers by the time they reach their teenage years: „Adapt„, „You must finally become sensible„, „An end to eternal daydreaming“ or „Now the serious side of life begins“ are just a few of them. And before you know it, the former abundance of lightness is lost and replaced by supposed reason, skepticism and a convulsive adherence to the status quo. 

 

Without ever wanting to, you have become a conformist, mediocre and, above all, functional member of society who has lost any form of fun, joy or satisfaction. I don't know about you, but I find that tragic. Fortunately, it doesn't have to come to that. If the phrase “Get out of your comfort zone” is not just lip service for you, but a philosophy that guides all your thoughts and actions. When you fall in love with the unknown every single day. 

 

When you enjoy the butterflies in your stomach when you think about the possibilities of the future. When you stop sitting on your comfy couch hoping that your situation will somehow improve and instead take action. When you go out into life and start pursuing your goals and dreams with passion. Woody Allen once aptly stated that the 80% of the Success is to just show up. So show up as often as possible. The more you give in to your desire for new impressions, experiences and stimuli in your life, the greater the likelihood that you will achieve extraordinary things.

 

Just imagine what would have happened if people like Marco Polo, Roald Amundsen or Christopher Columbus had not followed their spirit of discovery, but had waited in a safe harbor for a guarantee that they would definitely reach their destinations. They would never have reached China, the South Pole or America. The same applies to the invention of the light bulb, the printing press or the iPhone, all of which changed the world. Because Thomas Edison, Johannes Gutenberg and Steve Jobs shared the longing for innovation, for new paths and the permanent questioning of existing conventions. And they did not rest on their laurels, but rather maintained a willingness to constantly question their own achievements.

 

The longing for new horizons as a success factor is therefore so essential, because today's exceptional is tomorrow's good and the mediocre the day after tomorrow. I remember exactly how I thought in 2008 that with the iPhone 3G I was holding such a brilliant product in my hands that it couldn't get any better. How wrong you can be, because when I compare it with the current model, the iPhone 15 Pro Max, it seems to me like a smartphone from the Stone Age. It's similar with us humans, because we are like plants in this respect. If we can't grow, we don't stop at the current stage of development, we die. Not overnight, of course, but gradually. 

 

And this process is much more insidious. It's like the famous parable of the frog. If you try to put it in a pot of boiling water, it jumps out immediately. If, on the other hand, you put it in cold water and heat it only gradually, it will not notice the increase in temperature. Until at some point it is too late. Even if this metaphor is a myth, the statement behind it is true for many people. Because if you don't regularly expose yourself to new stimuli, challenging experiences and unknown situations, your personal comfort zone will become increasingly cozy over time and dullness, mediocrity and arbitrariness will spread.

But what actually happens as soon as you give in to the longing for Shift give in and dare to embrace uncertainty? You will gradually move through a process that will take you through four different zones and reward you with personal growth at the end. The following illustration provides an overview.

We all know this zone. Here, everything is known, familiar and, above all, very comfortable. You do what you always do, avoid any risks and have everything under control at all times. Routines and standard procedures characterize everyday life and most behaviors run on autopilot mode. However, the absence of any challenges creates a major problem. No growth takes place in the comfort zone, as you only fall back on known and proven methods. 

 

Life in the comfort zone is not particularly exciting, but the lack of variety is compensated for by a pronounced feel-good factor. In the short term, there is nothing wrong with this at all. But if you don't just want to function and live as you please, then you have to grow in the long term. Because growth is a basic human need and the basis for a life characterized by meaning, satisfaction and fulfillment. Here is a great idea that I wish you would never forget:

 

 

True life always begins outside your comfort zone. As soon as you dare to overcome your limits, head for new horizons and set sail on a stormy voyage. But before you can reap the rewards of this courageous step, there is unfortunately another zone waiting for you that most people fail to reach.

 

Beyond the comfort zone, the unknown lurks. The fear zone begins, and the crocodile brain (you can find out exactly what it is in my book “The mindset revolution” in detail) tries with all its might to persuade you to turn back. Because you are suddenly exposed to new situations that you have never experienced before, you start to doubt, look for excuses and would prefer to give up immediately. 

 

No wonder, because so much can go wrong, won't work the first time and a familiar inner voice will constantly remind you how little self-confidence you have in this zone. You will often feel overwhelmed because so many new impressions are coming at you. Your most important task is therefore to resist the temptations of the resistance triggered by the crocodile brain and instead consciously take the path of small steps. To embrace uncertainty and transform it into personal growth. And to repeat this as often as necessary until the first signs of success appear.

 

As soon as this happens, you are in the learning zone. Here too, most things are still new, while the old rules no longer apply. However, your curiosity is already so pronounced that your problem-solving skills are gradually increasing, which in turn boosts your self-confidence. Through the sum of the many small successes, you have set in motion a self-reinforcing positive spiral that enables you to acquire new knowledge, new skills and new abilities. 

 

New opportunities and possibilities suddenly seem to appear of their own accord, opening up further opportunities for you to try out your newly acquired skills straight away. Of course, not everything always works immediately in the learning zone and you have to take most of the steps very consciously, but the more often you face up to the challenges, the sooner you will make the transition to the decisive final phase.

 

Change is most fun when it is accompanied by purpose, fulfillment and, in particular, balance. And this is exactly what happens in the growth zone. Your self-confidence has now increased enormously, so that you dare to do things that you would never have dared to dream of before. Full of joy and ease, you throw yourself into solving problems, try out new ideas immediately and develop into a role model for those around you. Your new abilities, skills and characteristics have now become second nature to you and help you to achieve your goals and dreams as unconscious automatisms.

 

But something else, much more important, happens as soon as you start to spend a lot of your time in the growth zone. Almost as if by magic, the boundaries of both your comfort zone and your fear zone shift. On the one hand, the comfort zone expands. No wonder, because what seemed completely unthinkable and beyond known rules and standards some time ago has now become a lived reality. 

 

At the same time, the fear zone is also shrinking, because many situations in which you would have reacted with trembling knees and a pounding heart in the past have now become a perfect opportunity for you to grow as a person and gain new experiences. Will the doubt, uncertainty and fear ever disappear completely? Of course not. And that's a good thing, as they are the perfect indicator that you are about to do something extraordinary. Or in other words:

 

 

 

Dear readers, I very much hope that I have succeeded in triggering your longing for new ideas, new paths and new behaviors with this article. That I was able to make you want to renounce the comfort of the status quo and fall in love with the unknown. That it has become natural for you to regularly leave your comfort zone. It is very worthwhile not only to understand the 4-zone model of change, but to internalize it.

 

Because the more you grow as a person, the greater the degree of fulfillment, meaning and satisfaction. Always remember: your quality of life depends on the amount of growth you can live comfortably with in the long term. But before you rush straight off, a quick tip, because of course the right balance is also important here.

 

Why? Not everything that is new is automatically good. And not everything that is old is automatically bad. Dealing with necessary changes in a balanced way is therefore a bit like the famous ride on the razor's edge or the tightrope act in the circus. Only if you find the right balance between old and new will you be able to enjoy the wonderful effects of the growth zone. 

 

On the one hand, this means appreciating what has proven its worth. What is good. What you consciously want to preserve. And on the other hand, you should always be prepared to regularly question processes, conditions and especially yourself. And then radically change them. In this way, you get that magical cocktail of tradition and modernity, of preservation and daring, and of firm and stable Values and flexible behavior.